Simple rules in Cagayan De Oro City and elsewhere (and in most other nations in Asia:
1. the fewer people you get involved, the less expensive and less trouble.. so obey the bible advice of "If someone has something against you, quickly make it right, lest they drag you into court and you pay the last cent you have."
2. Stay calm, minimize, be polite and make a Fast resolution.  Another truth you can apply that WORKS: "As pressing the nose draws blood, so turning up a quarrel has no good result"
3. Do NOT get involved in someone else s problems... Unless a first-aid situation and no one is there to help!  (CPR/1st aid with kit and mask wise to have with you in tiny fanny pack)  The truth rings true: "Do not take someone else s offense personal, do not be a busy-buddy in someone else s argument".
4. If you're not part of the Problem or Solution.. do NOT GAUKE.. move on quickly.  Americans in particular are susceptible to 'self entertaining from someone else s misfortune'. And, in turn, can end up in the same mess if they are not careful. "A wise man sees danger and hides himself, but a fool proceeds on and suffers for it"   ... move ON... don't stop.. don't gossip.. MOVE AWAY from that situation!
5. If YOU are involved in an accident or incident... YOu must 'take it upon yourself to quickly solve, pay and end the problem FAST'. Don't call for others, do NOT delay the Fixing of it... quickly solve, agree, and move on with life. Do not 'satisfy' your natural emotional desire to Vent... instead, calmly solve it, pay as demanded..and move on.  ((( if you don't look like a walking ATM, you'll not get high demands from people in an accident )))) Â
6. Pride goes before a fall, but humility brings honor.  Humble yourself, be forgiving even when they are upset or at wrong.... solve, with peace fast.  Your humility and 'peaceful demeanor' can get you out of that mess.
7. Do not ask the US Embassy to step in (or any other nations).. get whatever is befalling you 'solved'.. paid in full FAST..and learn from the lesson..  Don't PUT yourself in an attitude, an environment of risk.
And, the above is from someone who survived 11 years in a 'hostile nation who hates america and brits'... but more so, it comes from the living Truths of God's word on how to deal with some 'ordeal'.
8. Finally, if you know Jesus..i would recommend your first response be to speak out loud JESUS.. and to speak faith with heart felt beleif to any ailment, injury, accident or incident... including dangerous ones. Ps 91 is good to speak in faith when some storm is coming to your city/location... these WORKED for others, and me...they can work for you.. if you have any understanding of GOD... you will realize HE does not want you in this MESS of some Accident or Problem... but He does have a GOOD way out, to save the day, and bring you to safety again.  Don't refuse so great a salvation, or the grace of loving people even when they are rude or nasty... thats the gospel of unearned mercy. thus, You gain mercy!